We are so grateful to be able to celebrate this day with so many who mean the world to us. Due to the size of our immediate families and the limited capacity of the chapel, the ceremony will be a smaller gathering with close family and friends. We warmly invite all guests to join us for the reception to follow, where we look forward to a full night of good food, drinks, and music.

The formal invitation will include details on when we hope you can join us. We sincerely appreciate your understanding and can't wait to share this special evening with you.

If we can allow for you to bring a guest, your formal invitation will include either your guest’s name or a +1 notation.

At this time, we are not planning on inviting children; however, if you have any questions regarding this, please do not hesitate to reach out!

We understand this is a big ask for most of our guests! If you can’t come, we totally understand. All we ask is that on your final RSVP you indicate as such.

Happo-en is a remarkable garden that’s been thriving for over 400 years in the heart of Tokyo.

After touring wedding venues back-to-back-to-back, the serenity we both felt as we walked through the main gate was so memorable. It’s truly untouched by time, and we knew pretty immediately that this was what we wanted our friends and family to experience.

Both the ceremony and reception will take place indoors, but expect to do some light outdoor walking if you wish to explore the garden.

Flights to Tokyo in May usually range from $1,200–$1,700, whether you’re flying direct or with a scenic layover (or two). Prices can fluctuate, so booking early can help! We know international travel takes a lot of planning, and our goal is to give everyone who wants to come plenty of time to plan and save.

We encourage people to begin booking their flights now that we're approaching the end of the year.

For our Boston friends: There is unfortunately only one direct flight to Tokyo operated by Japan Airlines. It’s expensive and may not be within reason for you. We have flown Air Canada, Delta, and United, each multiple times. If you need some guidance, please reach out!

For our East Coast friends: Avoid layovers on the West Coast! The long 6-hour flight, followed by a second leg double that is not worth it, and there are better options! We recommend booking direct or a short layover in the US/Canada followed by a longer flight to Tokyo.

For our West Coast friends: You guys have plenty of options, so revel in that!

Haneda Airport (HND) is the closest to central Tokyo—about a 30-minute drive away. While flights to Haneda used to be pricier, that’s been changing in recent years depending on where you’re flying from. If you decide to fly into Narita Airport (NRT) instead, it’s a 1-1.5 hour drive into the city. There are plenty of options for transportation: limousine buses, taxis, and a convenient express train with lots of space for luggage.

We’ll keep updating this FAQ with more tips on transportation in the following months!

Yes! Your passport must be valid for at least six months after your travel dates to Japan (November 2026 if you're traveling for a May 2026 wedding).

We've taken the liberty of sharing a few options for hotels in the area that are accessible by train or are a short drive. We tried to keep them central to Tokyo to make traveling throughout the city easier.

Tying the Knot in Tokyo: Hotels!

We couldn't include every hotel on our list, but there are plenty of great options in the area, including Airbnbs. We hope that the list can serve as a starting point for those who want to do their own research. Feel free to reach out with any questions regarding lodging!

With the 13-hour time difference, we know it might take a bit to adjust to Tokyo time. That’s why, if you can, we suggest planning the ceremony for the middle or end of your trip—a 5–7 day buffer before the big day would be perfect.

We’ll share a more detailed travel guide in the coming months, but we hope this helps give you a starting point for booking flights.

You do not need a car! Just trust us on this one.

May in Tokyo welcomes warm, pleasant weather—without the humidity of tsuyu (the rainy season) that rolls in by mid-June. Expect daytime highs in the mid-70s and cooler evenings in the high 50s. Short sleeves by day and a light jacket for the night should be perfect.